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The basics

Oklahoma divorce at a glance

How property is divided Equitable distribution — fair, but not always 50/50 (43 O.S. § 121)
Filing fee ~$180-$250 · varies by county
Residency requirement 6 months in Oklahoma and 30 days in the county before filing (43 O.S. § 103)
Waiting period 10 days after filing if no minor children; 90 days after filing if minor children (43 O.S. § 107.1)
Fault required? No — incompatibility is sufficient (43 O.S. § 101); fault grounds can be alleged
Mediation Required in contested cases in many counties; judges have authority to order (43 O.S. § 107.3)
Typical uncontested cost ~$1,500-$3,000

Common questions

What people ask us

How long does a divorce take in Oklahoma?

If there are no minor children, a divorce can be granted 10 days after filing. If minor children are involved, there is a mandatory 90-day waiting period, which can be waived under special circumstances. Most divorces are finalized within six months to a year, depending on complexity and agreement between parties.

Do I need a lawyer to get divorced in Oklahoma?

No, you are not legally required to have a lawyer. However, it is highly recommended, especially in contested cases or those involving children or significant assets, as the legal process can be complex.

Is Oklahoma a no-fault divorce state?

Yes, Oklahoma is a no-fault divorce state, meaning incompatibility is a sufficient ground for divorce. However, fault-based grounds like abandonment, adultery, or extreme cruelty can still be alleged and may influence certain aspects of the divorce, such as property division or alimony.

How is property divided in Oklahoma divorce?

Oklahoma follows the principle of equitable distribution. This means marital property and debts acquired during the marriage are divided fairly, but not necessarily equally, between the spouses. The court considers various factors to achieve a just and reasonable division.

What is a "covenant marriage" in Oklahoma?

A covenant marriage, as proposed by Oklahoma Senate Bill 228, would be an optional marriage type requiring premarital counseling and making divorce more difficult. It would require proof of wrongdoing for divorce and marital counseling, and offers a $2,500 tax credit for those who opt in.

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